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Freedom and Control — “Big Me and Little Me”: A Chinese Perspective for Counsellors

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  25 September 2015

Angela Back  and
Michelle Barker
Angela Back*
Affiliation:
Griffith University, Australia
Michelle Barker
Affiliation:
Griffith University, Australia
*
Angela Back, 28 Marmindie St, Chapel Hill, QLD 4069, Australia.
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Abstract

This paper is based upon a study of issues of self and identity of Chinese students in an Australian high school and uses indigenous concepts mainly drawn from the work of Hong Kong psychologists. Research was initiated because identity appeared to be developing in a different way for Chinese students compared with their Anglo-Australian counterparts. The case study of Chinese Year 12 students provided a framework for understanding and counselling Chinese students. It is this framework that is discussed first. Second, a concept of self — Big Me and Little Me — is presented as a way of conceptualising the tensions of interdependent functioning. Finally, implications for counsellors and general issues emerging in the counselling situation are discussed.

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Journal of Psychologists and Counsellors in Schools , Volume 12 , November 2002 , pp. 63 - 73
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