It has been claimed that gossip allows participants to negotiate
aspects of group membership, and the inclusion and exclusion of others, by
working out shared values. This article examines instances of gossipy
storytelling among young friends during which participants negotiate self-
and other-identities in particular ways. Participants are found to share
judgments not only about others' behavior but also about their own
behavior through particular processes of othering. A range of discursive
strategies place the characters in gossip-stories (even in the category
called “self-gossip”) in marginalized, liminal, or uncertain
social spaces. In the gossipy talk episodes examined, social
“transgression” might be oriented to as a serious matter and
thus pejorated, or oriented to in a playful key and thus celebrated. This
ambiguity – “Do we disapprove or approve, of this
‘bad’ behavior?” – means that in negotiating the
identity status of “gossipees” liminality is constant. It is
argued that othering, as an emergent category, along with the particular
discursive strategies that achieve it, is an aspect of gossip that
deserves further attention.We thank Jane
Hill, two anonymous reviewers, and especially Nik Coupland for their most
helpful comments on an earlier draft of this paper. To clarify the title,
from ex.(1), you can pull is British English; in American English
perhaps the closest expression to pull is get with,
proactively set up a link with someone, probably a sexual one, probably
only for one evening or night.