Belief that the extended family is in terminal decline has proved to be a
remarkably persistent myth. It is currently being revived as a result of recent
statistical trends. The belief has been closely connected to sociological enquiries
undertaken over the course of the century. The validity of the belief, and in
particular the significance of grandparents within the extended family, is
explored in two sets of life story interviews recently undertaken with adults in
Britain; one set are people in their thirties who had become step-children, and
the second set participants in a multi-generational study of social mobility. The
analysis addresses questions of contact after parental loss, sources of support
within the family, the involvement of grandparents, the importance of co-residence, conflict, emotional closeness and communication within a family.