‘Susan L. Carruthers is an eloquent storyteller. She exposes not only the poignancy of love in times of war, but also how perceptions of girlfriends and wives as ‘flight risks’ become powerful stimuli to male solidarity. A captivating history.’
Joanna Bourke - author of War and Art: A Visual History of Modern Conflict
‘This fast-moving journey through a century of soldiers’ heartbreak and rage at being dumped by their sweethearts reveals the psychological distance between the home front and the war theater, but even more tellingly illuminates the eternal war between men and women.’
Nancy F. Cott - author of Fighting Words: The Brave American Journalists Who Brought the World Home between the Wars
‘Whether distraught, amused, or enraged, jilted GIs have long bonded as victims of betrayal. Susan L. Carruthers’s marvellously written new book not only explores the origin and evolution of the 'Dear John' letter, but illuminates the misogyny that often underlies this military brotherhood, the alleged correlation with suicide, and the impact on the writers of these infamous epistles.’
Brian McAllister Linn - author of Elvis's Army: Cold War GIs and the Atomic Battlefield
‘Dear John is, dare I say, a pleasure to read, in addition to being incisive regarding the gendering and biases built around the mythopoeia of the epistolary breakup. Carruthers's multidimensional interrogation of the wartime brushoff encompasses fictions, reality, sexual orientation, POWs, social media, and all manner of telling the loved one So long, see you never. This learned and relevant treatment is a unique and deeply researched addition to the literature of broken hearts.’
Anthony Swofford - author of Jarhead: A Marine's Chronicle of the Gulf War and Other Battles
'… an eye-opening study of wartime romances and breakups.'
Source: Publishers Weekly
'Carruthers makes a convincing case that the Dear John letter has helped make women, not war, the culprit for love’s breakdown under pressure.'
Charlotte Gray
Source: The Wall Street Journal
‘Her account offers insights into a broader entanglement, involving the militarism that shores up modern nationhood; the emotional and sexual ties that sustain and can destroy men in the military; and the women on whom male soldiers have poured hatred as well as adoration.’
Julia Laite
Source: London Review of Books
‘As Carruthers explains, Dear John letters can be hard to find in archives. Recipients of these devastating messages were not necessarily inspired to retain them. To the extent that any such letters remain, they are generally scattered about in various collections of personal papers, as opposed to constituting their own collection. In light of these challenges, Carruthers’ research is even more impressive.’
Natalie Shibley
Source: War in History
