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In sure and uncertain faith: belief and coping with loss of spouse in later life

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  25 October 2007

PETER G. COLEMAN ,
FIONNUALA McKIERNAN ,
MARIE MILLS  and
PETER SPECK
PETER G. COLEMAN*
Affiliation:
School of Psychology, University of Southampton, UK.
FIONNUALA McKIERNAN
Affiliation:
School of Psychology, University of Southampton, UK.
MARIE MILLS
Affiliation:
School of Psychology, University of Southampton, UK.
PETER SPECK
Affiliation:
School of Psychology, University of Southampton, UK.
*
Address for correspondence: Peter G. Coleman, School of Psychology, University of Southampton, Southampton SO17 1BJ, UK. E-mail: P.G.Coleman@soton.ac.uk
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Abstract

This paper reports a study of the religious, spiritual and philosophical responses to spouse bereavement. Twenty-five bereaved spouses aged 60 or more years living in the south of England and from Christian backgrounds were followed from the first to the second anniversary of the loss. The participants expressed a range of attitudes, from devout religious belief to well-articulated secular conceptions of the meaning of life, but the largest group had moderate spiritual beliefs that were characterised by doubts as much as hopes. Uncertain faith was more often associated with depressive symptoms and low levels of experienced meaning. Nine case studies are presented that illustrate different levels of adjustment to bereavement and both changing and stable expressions of faith across the one year of observation. Attention is drawn to the importance of both secular agencies and religious organisations developing a better understanding of older people's spiritual responses to loss. Although to many British older people, practise of the Christian faith may be less evident now than in their childhood, quality of life assessment should not ignore sources of spiritual satisfaction and dissatisfaction. Moreover, previous and especially early-life religious experiences provide useful points of reference for understanding present religious and spiritual attitudes. The study suggests that there may be a substantial need for pastoral counselling among today's older people, especially those of uncertain or conflicted belief.

Keywords

bereavementspiritualityreligionphilosophy of lifepersonal meaningdepressionprayerpastoral counselling
Type
Research Article
Information
Ageing & Society , Volume 27 , Issue 6 , November 2007 , pp. 869 - 890
Copyright
Copyright © Cambridge University Press 2007

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