Published online by Cambridge University Press: 28 April 2021
How did surrogate motherhood evolve from a hare-brained, fly by night idea of the late 1970s into one that had at least some mainstream, middle-class support in the mid-1980s? Many explanations have been suggested. Although the rate of infertility has not increased, infertility is no longer a secret, and there are major public support groups, like RESOLVE, that advocate for infertile couples. New and powerful techniques like IVF (in vitro fertilization) have been developed, and although they help very few people, they have been widely publicized and approved. And babies are fashionable again. As one movie critic put it: Men and women do not fall in love with each other in the movies anymore. They fall in love with babies. Babies are the new lovers—unpredictable, uncontrollable, impossible and irresistible.
These explanations all have some merit. But the core of surrogate motherhood lies in the modern fairy tale that babies can properly be viewed as a consumer product for those with money to purchase them, and that by permitting this transaction we will all live happily ever after. As a product babies have been hyped by slick, white, middle-class professionals and advertised in the free-market environment of the 1980s. We are asked not to look behind the resulting children to see their lower-middle-class and lower-class mothers.