Published online by Cambridge University Press: 02 January 2018
This paper explores certain questions regarding whether the law concerning relief upon the dissolution of civil partnership and cohabitation should parallel that of marriage. It will be contended that while the principle of compensation does have an important role to play in the aftermath of de facto relationships, there remain reasons not to assimilate cohabitation fully with marriage – and in particular, not to apply the key principle of equal sharing that now informs divorce settlements in many jurisdictions, including England. On the other hand, an argument against assimilating marriage with civil partnership can be grounded in the fact that a civil partnership involves two parties of the same gender. This point generates room to argue that a presumption of equal sharing – to the extent that it rests upon compensatory rationales – may be less powerful in civil partnerships. Nonetheless, that claim can be circumnavigated by the argument for equal sharing as an independent principle – one applicable to civil partnership just as much as to marriage.
I am very grateful indeed to two anonymous reviewers for their insightful suggestions and advice. Special thanks are due to Rebecca Probert for her enormously helpful input and encouragement.
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62. Matrimonial Causes Act 1973, s 25(2)(f).
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71. [1970] AC 777.
72. [1971] AC 886. These judgments rejected the more generous ‘family assets’ interpretation of s 17 of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1882 found in Fribance v Fribance (1957) 1 WLR 384 where, at 387, Lord Denning LJ pronounced that ‘the whole of [the spouses] resources were expended for their joint benefit – either in food and clothes and living expenses for which there was nothing to see or in the house and furniture which are family assets – and the product should belong to them jointly. It belongs to them in equal shares.’
73. Matrimonial Proceedings and Property Act 1970. See the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973, s 25.
74. White v White (2001) 2 FLR 981.
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77. Ibid: an approach developed in the 1970s in accordance with s 25(2)(b) of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973. See also Cooke, E ‘Miller/McFarlane: law in search of discrimination’ (2007) 19 CFLQ 98 Google Scholar at 99–100.
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80. Miller/McFarlane, above n 76, at [4].
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99. Even so, if a governing principle of compensation should ever be adopted for cohabiting relationship breakdowns, the argument in this section would have application in that context (subject to the first two limitations identified above).
100. Bianchi et al, above n 92, p 392.
101. See now Radmacher v Granatino[2010] UKSC 42. The Supreme Court's decision to give weight to pre- and post-nuptial contracts, varying the prima facie terms of a package deal, is compatible more generally with the arguments being made here since it reflects the greater autonomy of many women entering modern marriages. Such a development would certainly have been inappropriate in the traditional world described by Baroness Hale (at [139]).
102. Cf. s 12(a) of the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973: a marriage is voidable if either party is incapable of the act of consummation.
103. Cf. Sutton v Mischon de Reya and Gawor and Co[2004] EWHC 3166. The contract over property division upon relationship breakdown cannot apply if sexual services constitute part of the consideration. On limiting rights and responsibilities, see Glennon, above n 23.
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105. Radmacher v Granatino[2010] UKSC 42 at [73]–[85]: it is subject to overriding considerations of fairness, most notably according to the principles of need and compensation (at [81]).
106. This is consistent with the conclusion in Radmacher v Granatino, ibid, at [53]–[61], where the majority rejected a distinction between pre- and post-nuptial agreements. Their Lordships' analysis presupposes that the relationship is ongoing, which supports distinguishing the kinds of agreement on a different basis – between ‘nuptial’ and separation agreements (cf. [65]).
107. On the difficulty of assessing the economic costs of career sacrifice, see Miles, above n 83, at 393, citing Coleridge J in RP v RP[2006] EWHC 3409 (Fam), (2007) 1 FLR 2105 at [59]–[64], endorsed by the President in VB v JP[2008] EWHC 112 (Fam), (2008)1 FLR 742 at [52]. Contrast Eekelaar's preferred approach to compensation: ‘Property and financial settlements on divorce: sharing and compensating’ (2006) 36 Fam Law 754.
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