Suicide Junkie – poems by doctors

The last overdose I took

was precipitated by the fear of abandonment.

I had misinterpreted my key worker's kindness

as a sign she was soon to be leaving,

I wasn't trying to make her stay;

I just couldn't imagine how I'd cope without her

so death seemed the only viable option.

When I was younger

I used to fantasise about being murdered.

It seemed the obvious solution

to my impossible predicament:

Life too unbearable to go on

but I wouldn't have to face the wrath of hell

because the fatal knife plunged into me

would be the doing of another's hand.

So I'd tank up on the cheapest and most potent booze

then stagger round the streets all night,

searching for a friendly psychopath

to put me out of my misery.

Some nights I slept on a dried patch of dog's piss,

soaking up the fumes with a vampire's

lust for the macabre.

There was the odd attempted hanging

where I proved myself a parody

of beefed-up incompetence.

I even tried to drown myself by swimming out to sea.

The life crew that picked me up

were unaware of the irony in my ‘thanks’

When I jumped off Salisbury Crags

some unseen force intervened and I came off lightly

with a thousand bruises and a broken bone.

Staring from the Forth Road Bridge into the black abyss,

I should have known

the fence would prove too much for my dyspraxia.

Each botched attempt to silence the scream

another notch upon the damning pages of my notes.

Lurching from crisis to crisis

fed the adrenalin of being mad.

I wasn't doing it for attention

but release from the distress.

It's hard to explain if you've not known the pain

of desolation in the beauty of a sunset.

Being addicted to despair is a sickness of the soul.

The healing touch of heaven, I now see,

comes not from death

but the sunset quickening my senses,

making me feel whole.

© Jo McFarlane. Reprinted with permission.

Selected by Femi Oyebode. From Stigma & Stones: Living with a Diagnosis of BPD, poems by Sally Fox & Jo McFarlane. Through their collection Stigma & Stones, writers/performers/partners Sally Fox and Jo McFarlane seek to promote understanding, improve treatment and reduce the stigma of living with a diagnosis of BPD.