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Chapter 5 - Toddlerhood

The Meaning of Me

from Part I - The Beginnings of Meaning

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  11 June 2025

L. Alan Sroufe
Affiliation:
University of Minnesota
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The emerging awareness of self and other, especially with regard to compatible and conflicting aims, opens up dramatic new meanings for the toddler. Being able to be deliberately contrary gives the child experience with disruption and repair of the relationship and lets them explore the boundaries of appropriate behavior. The toddler also has a beginning capacity to control impulses and manage behavior, but doing this adequately requires continued scaffolding and guidance from parents. Meanings surrounding parental reliability brought forward from infancy impact how readily children now accept parental guidance. At the same time, clear, firm, and warm guidance can increase the child’s confidence regarding parents. This is how the transactional model works.

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The Development and Organization of Meaning
How Individual Worldviews Develop in Relationships
, pp. 50 - 64
Publisher: Cambridge University Press
Print publication year: 2025

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  • Toddlerhood
  • L. Alan Sroufe, University of Minnesota, June Sroufe
  • Book: The Development and Organization of Meaning
  • Online publication: 11 June 2025
  • Chapter DOI: https://doi.org/10.1017/9781009385480.007
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  • Toddlerhood
  • L. Alan Sroufe, University of Minnesota, June Sroufe
  • Book: The Development and Organization of Meaning
  • Online publication: 11 June 2025
  • Chapter DOI: https://doi.org/10.1017/9781009385480.007
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  • Toddlerhood
  • L. Alan Sroufe, University of Minnesota, June Sroufe
  • Book: The Development and Organization of Meaning
  • Online publication: 11 June 2025
  • Chapter DOI: https://doi.org/10.1017/9781009385480.007
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