Book contents
- Promoting Black Women’s Mental Health
- Promoting Black Women’s Mental Health
- Copyright page
- Contents
- Figures
- Tables
- Contributors
- Introduction
- Part I Black Women in Context
- Part II Therapy Contexts
- Part III Core Themes in Black Women’s Stress and Distress
- 8 Strong Black Woman Persona: Mental Health Impacts
- 9 Shifting in Black Women: Clinical Implications
- 10 Black Women’s Mothering and Caregiving
- 11 Black Women’s Romantic and Intimate Relationships
- 12 Appearance Prejudice and Discrimination against Black Women
- Part IV Helping Black Women Recover and Thrive
- Appendix
- Index
- References
11 - Black Women’s Romantic and Intimate Relationships
from Part III - Core Themes in Black Women’s Stress and Distress
Published online by Cambridge University Press: 22 June 2023
Book contents
- Promoting Black Women’s Mental Health
- Promoting Black Women’s Mental Health
- Copyright page
- Contents
- Figures
- Tables
- Contributors
- Introduction
- Part I Black Women in Context
- Part II Therapy Contexts
- Part III Core Themes in Black Women’s Stress and Distress
- 8 Strong Black Woman Persona: Mental Health Impacts
- 9 Shifting in Black Women: Clinical Implications
- 10 Black Women’s Mothering and Caregiving
- 11 Black Women’s Romantic and Intimate Relationships
- 12 Appearance Prejudice and Discrimination against Black Women
- Part IV Helping Black Women Recover and Thrive
- Appendix
- Index
- References
Summary
Black women’s romantic and intimate relationships are explored in both heterosexual and queer unions. We discuss the strengths of Black women’s romantic unions and examine conditions that create stress and distress for Black women in marriage, cohabitation, and sexual and dating relationships. We discuss cultural, structural, and historical dynamics that drive Black women’s relationship stereotypes and challenges. We also address conditions that create unusual relational risks for Black women, including sexually transmitted infections and intimate partner violence.
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- Promoting Black Women's Mental HealthWhat Practitioners Should Know and Do, pp. 263 - 287Publisher: Cambridge University PressPrint publication year: 2023
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