Despite a growing body of cross-cultural ethnographic research in
religious enclave communities, we know little about the everyday
discursive practices by which women caregivers socialize children to
morally reject much of contemporary society. This article draws on
ethnographic and linguistic research conducted in a Brooklyn (New York)
neighborhood from 1995 through 1997 to discuss how Hasidic women
caregivers rehearse a particular stance to faith with young children by
examining socialization routines in which Hasidic children display
culturally unacceptable ways of speaking: questioning, requesting or
challenging authority figures. An unusual consistency of message across a
range of socialization contexts supports caregivers' (mothers'
and teachers') efforts to teach their children the morality of
communal hierarchies of authority and difference. Hasidic women encourage
their children to “fit in” to communal hierarchies of age,
gender, and religious practice and to reject what they present as
“Gentile” ways of behaving and communicating. When children
make certain requests, ask culturally unacceptable questions, or challenge
caregiver authority, caregivers invoke the moral authority of community
practices and social roles. Through appeals to a higher authority,
essentializing difference and morality, silence, shaming, or threat of
exclusion, Hasidic children are presented with a type of faith which
parallels communal authority with divine authority. An approach to
religious enclave communities that is framed by the language socialization
research paradigm can link everyday micro processes of talk with broader
global processes shaping contemporary religious movements.Thanks go to Bambi Schieffelin, Peter Schneider,
Samuel C. Heilman, Adam Idelson, Patrick Moynihan, Lotti Silber, Faye
Ginsberg, Barbara Kirschenblatt-Gimblett, and Jim Wilson for their time,
insights, and support (technical and otherwise). This article grew out of
a shorter version I presented at an invited session Paul Garrett and I
organized for the American Anthropological Association 1997 meetings, at
which Elinor Ochs was a valuable discussant. I presented a more recent
version at the Michigan Seminar on Social Identity (2003) thanks to Bambi
Schieffelin's invitation. The broader research on which this article
is based was funded by the Wenner-Gren Foundation for Anthropological
Research, National Science Foundation, Memorial Foundation for Jewish
Culture, Spencer Foundation, Lucius Littauer Foundation, and National
Foundation for Jewish Culture. I am very grateful for the support. Thanks
to the teachers, students, and administrators at the Hasidic girls'
school, Bnos Yisroel, and the women who invited me into their homes.
Special thanks to the first-grade teacher, Mrs. Weiss, whose graciousness
makes her a role model for Jews, Gentiles, and everyone else.